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Go on then, tell me the story…

You’ve just hit the clubs and met up with a few friends. One face, however, is new to you and it is the most beautiful thing you have ever laid your eyes on. “Jane, meet Tom” says a voice from your best buddy. After being introduced to this girl you find it much easier to talk. You spend all night with her and when you head home you make a date to hang out the next day.

So tomorrow comes and you go and meet Jane, although your quite off tone with the conversation. You thought you’d scored with the girl of your dreams and whilst she talks away about her current guy troubles and subtly rejects any kind of flirting you attempt to make you realize that this isn’t a date, but more like a trip to the bowling alley with your buddies on a Wednesday night. Feeling down and rejected, you head home, but you make countless other dates to try and score with Jane, all in vein of course and the real deal really hits home when she says she is glad to have you as a friend. But you can’t get Jane off your mind. You still want her. But you don’t know how to get her. I do. Read on…

What I am about to tell you will go against every single thing your mom, dad, grandparents, luckless-with-girls friends and Disney have ever told you. To get a relationship with Jane you need to IGNORE her. Yes, you read that correctly. Let me break it down for you…

First of all reverse the situation. Your hanging out with Jane, having fun, just kicking it back like you do, then when you ring to make another date there’s no answer. No biggie you think. You message her on myspace. No reply, even though she’s online. You text, again no reply. She’s visibly online on MSN but still doesn’t reply to your messages. This drives you absolutely INSANE. Why is she ignoring you!? The next day you see her out, you say “hi Jane”. She looks at you and walks past. This starts to get on your nerves. You feel slightly pissed off, but remember the good times you had together. You think back to those, just to double check you didn’t say or do anything rash. Then you see Jane out with another guy and a few days after out with a different guy. This plays on your mind. Does Jane not want you anymore now she has new guys to hang out with? She never touched or kissed you like she was with those guys? What do they have that you don’t? The same will work to your advantage. After a couple of weeks of COMPLETELY ignoring her, start talking, but very limited. You know the stuff, one word, I don’t give a shit typed answers. This shows that your still about on the scene.

Believe it or not guys, girls LOVE a man that is in demand. It gives them a sence of pride and victory to know they have got something that other women want. So step one is ignore her for a month or two. Step two and step 3 go hand in hand. First of all GET SOME GAME. Read the Crash Course in Seduction by The Inner Circle, learn the basics of how to attract women, implement this into your daily lifestyle. You need to grow some balls, take a long hard look at yourself and change yourself for the better. Second of all MEET NEW WOMEN. Without rubbing it in her face, let Jane see you with other women, other options. Your ignoring her plus her seeing the new, more attractive, more confident you with other women will drive her absolutely crazy.

So your confident, you’ve got some game, you’ve got some girls. If you still actually want to hook up with Jane now you have these options of other girls, give her a call. Arrange to meet and play your game. If you don’t want to hook up with Jane, arrange to meet and play your game. If you show disinterest on this date she’ll probably just jump all over you anyway!

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